Sunday, June 29, 2014

Girls Camp!



I had the opportunity to go to girls camp this year!  :) It wasn't planned, but there were some other leaders that had things come up that made it so they couldn't go- and I was available so I went!  I found out on a Sunday, we left for Florida on the next Tuesday, and returned two Fridays later.  We got home around midnight, on Friday.  Saturday I unpacked, and repacked, we went to church on Sunday and then Monday morning I headed off to camp!  Quick turn around, but lots of fun. :)
The girls in my cabin and my co-cabin leader.  

Yes we were spoiled- plugs and a/c!

After the week at camp I was asked with some others to speak in Sacrament meeting about my experience as a leader at camp- here's the talk that I gave-

Good Morning Brothers and Sisters,I LOVE Girls Camp.  The bugs, the dirt, the bug spray… French braids, canoeing, hiking, campfires, firesides- all of it.  I was one of those girls that they had to gently tell me I had gone enough years- as I pleaded with my leaders into letting me come up for ½ a week for my 7th year as a camper.   So- imagine my delight when I got asked if I could come to camp this year as a leader. I had the opportunity to work with the first year girls at camp.  We had a cabin of 11 first year girls who were full of excitement and energy.   Some of my thoughts at first were: “I will never be able to keep up with these girls”  “I worry about __________ and if she will feel welcomed and find a friend”  “will they really sit down and do a devotional and journal time without complaining?”
On the first day when I arrived- they handed me a camp manual- in it they have a section “to Young Women Leaders” It starts with this: “At Young Women Camp, young women ages twelve to eighteen have the world of nature as their classroom.  They can experience the wonder of God’s creations and learn skills that will help them become more self-reliant and able to live comfortably in the outdoors.  Camp also provides a time for young women and their leaders to develop lasting friendships as they work and play together.  Through shared experiences they can draw closer to their Heavenly Father and strengthen each other in living the gospel”
As the week went on my thoughts changed.  I found strength in my co- leaders.  I didn’t have to keep up with these girls alone- we were able to keep up with them together.  When I felt like I was falling short they were there to step in and help.  I didn’t have to do it alone- I was part of a team.
The girls that I worried about on the first day?  They dove in.  They became examples to me of making new friendships, trying new things and pushing their own comfort boundaries to grow and learn new things.  They listened and participated as the YCL’s taught them new skills, and led them through activities.
The devotionals- the girls not only listened, but participated.  The spirit was felt.  I witnessed how one girl didn’t wait for devotional and journal scripture time to read her scriptures, but when we had down time in the cabin she would pull them out and read from them- while still paying attention to the conversations around her.  An example to all of us that scripture study doesn't have to only be during the “assigned times” or “quiet” times.  
There isn't time enough to tell all the stories that I observed that week.  I felt like a proud mother there- not only witnessing my own daughter and acts of service, but also witnessing the girls from our ward, and others as they served each other.  
From carrying a first year from the bathroom back to her cabin after her shower so her wet shoes wouldn't get all muddy.  The YCL who was amazing- making sure our girls all felt happy and part of the group- even though it was her first year at camp as well.
Just as I experienced the sweet spirit as a young woman attending girls camp growing up- I felt that same spirit as a leader.  I’m grateful for the opportunity I had to attend girls camp this year.  We truly have amazing girls who are learning and growing spiritually.   I've always contended that many times we are asked to do things- not only for the skills we bring to an opportunity, but for what we learn as we serve others.   I’m grateful for the lessons I was able to learn at girls camp.  For the reminder of priorities I need to move around in my life and for the strengthening of my own testimony.
Bear Testimony:

In the name of Jesus Christ Amen.
Our Edmond 3rd ward girls! 

 
Beautiful evening fireside!

Vacation Posts...

I've been blogging about the trip we took and some other summer stuff- family stuff over on the family blog.  http://newtonaaaa.blogspot.com  go and check it out! :)


Tuesday, May 13, 2014

Field trip!

 
Today was the fifth grade field trip to a baseball game.... 

Last time I went we got sunburns, this time we shivered in the shade and wind- you never know what to count on with weather here in the spring.  

The one thing we could count on though was hot dogs, dipping dots, and fun! Alyssa has a great group of friends and they had a good time.  :) 




Sunday, May 11, 2014

Two weeks of school left- oh and Happy Mothers Day!

We have two weeks of school left.   It's a busy time.  Parties, plays, concerts, business trips, teacher appreciation, service, exercise, shopping.... All happened last week.   
 I love looking at the collage in my photo stream on my phone.   It reminds me of all the good and fun things we have happening in our lives.  This next week will have field trips, baking, farewell parties, birthday celebrations, graduation, court of honors, movies, and hopefully lots of sunshine and happy times.   

Many a day I find myself at the end of the day with the following quote in my mind... " it was the best of times, it was the worst of times" this is the best season of life and in many ways the hardest I've faced so far.   I love being a mom.  I love watching my children and their accomplishments, their advancement and when the lightbulb goes off in their head and they "get it".  I love watching them try hard and even sometimes fail- but get up with more determination to try again.  I love to see them exceed their (and at times my) expectations.   

As we navigate these busy years of life my appreciation for my mom and others increases exponentially.   We all are doing our best and we've all got some pretty amazing kids!   

Happy Mothers Day to my mom, mother in law, sisters, sister in laws, and so many many friends!! I look up to each of you and you and teach me by your examples every day! 

Tuesday, April 29, 2014

Birthday week

Last week was my birthday... I'm (gulp) 37 now.  Funny thing is it doesn't feel that bad since Rich is 4 1/2 years older than I am. :)

I've thought a lot about life and stuff this past week.  I've been flooded with well wishes and birthday hugs and love.  I've felt like Sally Fields at times "They love me!".  I'm  not a big collector.  I don't really attach myself to things.  I only keep a few sentimental items- I don't even have more than one baby outfit per child and no baby shoes kept.  But... I think I collect friends.  I feel connections with people even if maybe my connection to them is stronger than their connection to me.

This past week I have felt so grateful for all the wonderful friends I've collected through the years.  At times I feel like I'm a bad friend- I don't keep in touch very well.  I'm not one to pick up the phone and talk for hours on end.  I haven't sent out Christmas cards in I don't know how many years...  but I love and treasure every one I receive.  I love receiving phone calls and knowing that someone was thinking about me, and I love hearing about what is going on in friends lives.

Facebook gets a rep as a social media site, drama takes place and feelings get hurt.  I can completely understand if someone feels like they need to get off of facebook and it's not a good place for them.  For me though- Facebook has been a blessing in my life- as funny as it sounds.  It's made it easy for me to reconnect with old friends.  Having lived in many places growing up, and as an adult- when the phone numbers and addresses change (as let's face it- in this day and age those things change frequently) I have found and connected with so many of those friends on facebook.  I can see their children as they grow up and I can feel connected and lend support as they deal with difficulties.  I've gotten to know cousins that I didn't grow up knowing very well- a little bit better and feel like they know me a little  bit more as well.

So I'll be on facebook for a long time coming...  but I am going to try and pick up the phone a little more often and call a friend- just because.  And maybe, just maybe I'll get some Christmas cards sent out by New Years...

And thank you to everyone that made me feel special this past week.  :)  It truly was a wonderful week and I felt the love. :)